Last Month of School OH MY GOD YES!

May has to be one of the happiest #$%^ing months of the year. You know that you are about to start your summer. No more homework, getting up early, and all that bull.

This summer we have two birthdays in June and one in July. Somewhere in between those will be the birth of a new baby brother. Probably mid June. I am hoping for a chaos free homecoming, but hell who am I kidding. The house is already a daily tornado. People keep telling me that I need to get the older two to help me. Dylan yeah he'll help a little, but Gia hellz no. She's not doing nothing cause she knows nothing will happen if she doesn't. Either way this month will be the last month of school, and a revolution within the home. No more clothes on the floor, the floor will stop being the trash can, and somebody beside Mommy is gonna do the beeping dishes.

So after the baby comes, I am planning on getting getting a totally fixed. Nothing left behind to make another kid. I need to start researching it, cause I'm butchy enough. I don't want to start growing a beard or anything. So that will be down 6 weeks for the kid, and 6 weeks for the surgery. Lordy me it's gonna be a bit hellish, but hopefully someone will help.

The part I'm looking forward to is maybe getting to go back to work, and I would like to start at SWIHA. We'll see. Kids have to come first. Now if I can just get them to sleep in their own room. I got to get a better apartment with washer and dryer hookups. Having to travel to wash just plains sucks!

Time to Rewind

Often we get so caught up in daily life that we forget to just breathe. I find myself often just hollering cause I get so fed up with saying the same things over and over. This only me upset and makes me lose focus. It certainly does not motivate my kids one bit. Doesn't motivate the "old man" either. If that's even right. They just look at me like I'm some crazy pregnant lady, and maybe they are right.

If only they could understand how tired you get while being pregnant. I'm fine one minute and want to be in a coma the next. It's so random. We never seem to get things organized, clean enough, or on a schedule. I guess I'm nesting or something cause when I walk in and stuff is in the floor I can feel my blood pressure start to blow up. Even if the kids pitch in my little red headed tornado just goes right behind them and destroy our hard work. Got to get this problem fixed.

This week has been a little crazy. Gia decided (I think it was Monday) that she was not going to school. Bus came and gone, and I was about to have to walk her to school. It's only like a mile, but I'm 8 months preggie and way overweight. Thank you God my sister's preacher stopped to pick her up, or I would of never made it back to the house. So that was the straw that broke my back. I called her father and had him pick her up from my house that afternoon for some tough love. I do not like to spank my kids and some would say that's the problem. With Gia is doesn't work, but her father works. She acted some what better when she came home, but that issue has to stop. That and the endless whining. Lordy me does that work my last nerve!

Dylan had been having trouble with the neighborhood bullies. It's hard when you try to provide them with a home and they can't enjoy being outside like normal kids. I am hoping to go back to work after Christian is born and get to a better place. It breaks my heart for him to come in the house crying cause some punk is messes with him! Speaking of Dylan he got to go to the Jackson, MS zoo with his class.

As for Anna, lordy she is something else. She's getting older and trying to claim her territory. I wonder sometimes if she understand what's about to happen. It will all be fine. It usually is. :-) At least I hope.

So this week I guess I'm gonna nest, trying not to take hostages, and stay calm. Yeah good luck with that! lol

Lordy Me What a Week!

Dylan is finally over both types of flu. Anna stopped puking her guts out after the after easter egg party. God that was horrible, and I think when Gia gets this chest infection cleared up we will be good for a while. Meanwhile in babyland, I honest to God think this kid is a vampire. I am so freaking tired. My house is a disaster. This is mainly Anna's fault. If it's not in her mouth she's either throwing it or spitting it out where ever it lands is fine.

So, I haven't really felt up to cleaning much. I spent most of my day in the bed crying yesterday. Honestly for no reason at all. I'm just over being as big as a house. Little man thinks I'm a trampoline, and that's just not cool.

Tomorrow hopefully I'll get to see him before he comes. Gonna take the older two so maybe they can see as well. I know the other night Dylan got to feel him kick and it just made his whole day. Happy doesn't come to often lately.

The only good thing about where we live is that we are on our own. They can't really play or make decent friends. I'll have a lady with five teenagers moving above me in a couple of weeks, and that's just not going to fly with a newborn in the house. I already can't stand the stairs. Sounds like elephants stomping. I have got to seriously get some thinking and action done in the next couple of weeks. I need to get to a place where they can thrive and I can find a job after I am healed.

The @#$% is about to get real. More Later.

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A little about me. I am a single mother of three and one on the way. I have a son named Dylan (8), Gia (5), Anna (1), and Christian...who's still a cooking. We live in central Mississippi. A very peaceful and blessed we live. Not to be bragging. We live were there is next to zero crime or drama. Beautiful weather and yes my kids can play out in the yard. We have all we need, and some of our wants, but not too much. A simple life is what we live. 

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My third and wildest child to date..Annalissa

She was find til the Easter Bunny moved...lol

My oldest child...Dylan

This was our Easter at Victory Fellowship 

Anna and her Daddy

My thirty year old...five year old. Gia

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